This is an excerpt from an email from the wicked good Missus P today that I thought deserved a spot on my blogg so I can come here and remind myself that playing the fool does not a fool make:
Sar, I hope you see by how your friends react to this situation that you are an amazing person. I know that Chance has hurt you so much, but we see beyond him - and see you for the intelligent and loving soul that you are - I know you are in pain, but try not to beat yourself up for it.
Balance the bad things you are feeling about yourself with all the good, strong things you have accomplished. The fact that you've been through so much with him, and are already accepting that you'll forgive one day is the mark of a truly capable woman.
Always remind yourself that YOU are the strong one.
((HUGS))
2 comments:
*laugh* darlin, the point is YOU rock!!!
Don't even think a MOMENT on the lies that you've been told. We are supposed to believe in the people we love. You aren't a fool. no, no!
That's a wise perspective P, I hadn't thought about it like that.
Viciously attacking myself if something goes wrong is a nasty habit of mine, one might consider it a quality that I hold myself accountable? However, I don't even give others a chance to beat on me emotionally...I do plenty of it for myself.
Maybe some day that inner child will mature emotionally a little and stop feeling like such a bad little girl every time something goes wrong?
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